Love the one you're with

Ok so there is an old saying, if you can't be with the one you love, then love the one you're with.  Well I tried this for a bit.  I decided to stop being so critical and if a guy asked me out or wanted to hang out, I would say YES every time.  You know where this got me, no where but pissed off.  Because every time these guys would do something stupid, which I knew they would because that is why I originally would say no in the first place, it just got on my nerves.  Yes I'm a bit of a bossy pants, but when we are riding around town (WHERE I'M FROM) and I give you directions because I HAVE TO WORK, just listen to me.  Life would be a lot happier if I just got home and to work on time, but instead you knew best about the town I have lived in MY WHOLE LIFE, so I was late and now pissed off that I ever considered hanging out with you.  And yes some of my friends called you a creeper, I was gonna give you the benefit of the doubt, you asked for my digits we went out and guess what you were a creeper, you should mostly trust your GF's and your instincts.  When you asked me what brand my clothes were and they were not up to your standards, I should have said no right then and there, instead of feeling under dressed and cheap everytime we went out.  And just because we have great convo's and text constantly and it seems to be going great, doesn't mean I should forget the long distance and believe that would work (in this case, love the one you with, but not often because of long distance).  All these are examples of guys I've said yes too, but mostly knew in the beginning it wasn't worth my time.

So ladies I know it's lonely out there and sometimes it's hard to believe that there is someone out there for you, but I truly believe if you keep having  hope and keep being the bestest girl you can be (and keep you legs closed) you will find THE GREAT GUY.

NOW for those of you who are currently in relationships with guys you really aren't that into, or dating multiple guys..... SHARE THE LOVE!!!  I mean you are not only holding yourself back from meeting someone great, but that maybe so-so girl is out there waiting to meet your mister "love the one your with".  I mean you could be at a bar, chatting up MR GREAT GUY lawyer hottie that wants you to have 1000 babies, botox, work out all day, and meet with your mommy groups.... and the convo is getting good, you are just about to agree to go on a date with him....WHAM, here comes your LTOYAW (love the one you are with) BF, all up in your convo, buying you drinks, trying to show this other guys he is cool and especially show him, you two are together.  So forget MR GREAT GUY lawyer, he ain't competing with this guy.  So see girl you are missing out on tons of hottie opportunities out there.  So explore life alone without LTOYAW bf, get out meet someone great and make great babies together.

Ok now to the girl who is dating multiple guys, don't think I forgot about you.  Let's just say that the odds in this town girls to guys is 4:1.  So for ever 1 guy, there is 4 girls.  So MISS multiple dater, you are dating 4 guys, well guess what that means you are messing it up for 16 other girls out there.  So help everyone get along, help all the lonely women out there be happy and cut some of those men folk loose.  I know it's hard to say NO to the free dinners, the foot rubs, the rides to your car when you cabbed it home, BUT just remember there is some awesome girl out there who thinks your MR so-so is her MR GREAT GUY and they will make awesome so-so babies and live happily ever after.  Which again brings me back to you being more available to find that MR. AWESOME, PERFECT, HOTTIE, GREAT guy that you are looking for.

So ladies don't settle with the so-so's, get out there and meet the MR Great guys.  I know they exist I know lots of them and I'm trying to find one of Mr. great guys FRIENDS that will be my AWESOME, PERFECT, HOTTIE, BABY DADDY!!!

And for now ADIOS to MR. creeper, Mr. Bad direction listener, Mr Snobby Pants, Mr. Stalker (see prev blog), Mr Long Distance..... I'm setting you free and sending you out into the world, because there is some girl out there with older creepy mad fetish, girl with no sense of direction, rich girl good clothes, needs a lot of attention girl, and a hometown girl who is waiting for you guys!